Listening to yourself is an essential ingredient for being present. When there is silence you are appreciating that you dont have to know all the answers at once in for all. If you start feeling uncomfortable in silence it means you're controlling to avoid feeling anxious.
Being silence you experience the feelings of your entire body. Allowing for silence between sharing seems to help people become present before they speak. After speaking pause for a moment to make sure the other person has received what you just said. "take your applause". Save the details for the face-to -face meeting. Every time you express yourself you are thrown to the unknown and to uncertainty into empty space.
Feel your own feelings as you listen and wait. Take a look in your conversations how many times you tell people what to do, how to do it, how to feel, want and what proportion you really listen how that other person thinks, feels.
When you have an inquiry attitude people will like to talk to you because you are being open and an active listener, you make them feel listened and important. When you embrace silence, you can see how feelings change from one time to another because you are absorbing what the person just said to you and considering it
- Cool is not the purpose of life.
- Sometimes nothing is better than something
Being silence you experience the feelings of your entire body. Allowing for silence between sharing seems to help people become present before they speak. After speaking pause for a moment to make sure the other person has received what you just said. "take your applause". Save the details for the face-to -face meeting. Every time you express yourself you are thrown to the unknown and to uncertainty into empty space.
Feel your own feelings as you listen and wait. Take a look in your conversations how many times you tell people what to do, how to do it, how to feel, want and what proportion you really listen how that other person thinks, feels.
When you have an inquiry attitude people will like to talk to you because you are being open and an active listener, you make them feel listened and important. When you embrace silence, you can see how feelings change from one time to another because you are absorbing what the person just said to you and considering it
- Human communication is an alive, ever-changing creation- it is created, re-created, and co-created in each moment. And creation requires patience: the ability to tolerate emptiness.
- Profound things happen while you are sitting face to face and openly explore their feelings toward each other in the present.
- Words are not the problem, is how we use them that gives what we are trying to say another meaning.